Just went out on my 2nd date since I’ve been in Jacksonville, first with this guy. His name is Jose, and it went really really well. Best part, he’s single. haha
Anyway, I’ll be going out with him again this weekend, so hope for the best.
Work @ 8:15am, it’s gonna be rough, but the date was worth the tiredness. Good night, Tumblrs.
:D
(via iamblessed)
One thing I learned this year:
Don’t think that one decision ends it all because eventually a door will open to what you really want and you’ll have the chance to make it right again.
“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.”
Caring too much about what other people think about you is tacky.
Growing up, I spent a lot of my time trying to fit the standards that other people set for me. From my sexuality to the type of music that I listened to, I allowed others to shape me into a person that I was not. When we give the people around us power to determine who we are, we give up our own personal freedom. We give someone else the ability to dictate our level of self-esteem and determine our self-worth. Essentially, we give up ourselves.
In life, it is important to develop and maintain healthy human relationships. The opinions of other individuals should matter only to the extent that we deem appropriate. We should take ALL constructive criticism into account, but never let it mold us into a person that goes against our personal beliefs or moral foundation. If someone is intent on re-shaping who you are, then that individual ought to have no place in your life and no room in your head. The judgements that other people hold of you are nothing more than their opinions. Obsessing about them or allowing them to constantly hang in the back of your mind is not being fair to yourself. (Not to mention, it’s unfair to those people who do care about getting to know the real you.)
When you’re addicted to what people think about you, you’re never going to be fully happy with yourself. Make a choice to simply not care. Take control of your emotions and your mindsets. Don’t allow anyone else to control what goes on in your head or how you view yourself. After all, at the end of the day, you only have yourself to answer to.
Why am I so attracted to hispanic men?!?!?!
Goodness lol, it’s almost ridiculous.
melanie <3
yay for gasparilla and us both getting it off!! can’t wait! i need some time with my YES person! lol
Yessssss! haha What was I thinking with that dress (is that even a dress!?)? Haha and Carlito in the background.
yep
wowee
I guess what I like about you the best is how you can make me laugh even when nothing is funny.
I know I shouldn’t like him, because I know its not working, and so I convince myself I don’t. And then I see him. And he’ll smile or put his arm around me or just say… anything, and then all that logic and convincing myself just evaporates.
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